Skip to main content

Forced

A Marriage is something built on Trust, Love, and Blessings. It is not a blessing from parents to their girl child if they forcefully get her married. It is a Curse. A curse which will backfire on them if the marriage does not sustain. Just as they force their daughter to get married because of Society, they will be the one whose heads will remain bowed down infront of Society. I have seen many girls in my school, neighbourhood, and hell, my own sister who have already bent their future ambitions because of how their parents constantly keep reminding them at home that one day, she WILL have to get married, forget them, and work for the betterment of a family whom she doesn't even connect with.

So, instead of making her push harder in the way of her superior ambitions, they decide to demoralise her. Not only does it affect the girl's mental stability, but slowly and slowly makes her feel physically ill. And if the girl really does fail to achieve her goals because of her parents' domination, they will blame her. As a punishment or so called by 'Society Rules', they will get her married. And with it, destroy her ambitions, goals, career, social life, and ultimately, LIFE.

Hence, it is my earnest request to all the girls I know and the billions I don't, to never bend your will when it comes to choosing your life partner. Especially, when you are being manipulated, dominated, or forced by your parents. I do not mean to disrespect your parents. I am respecting your inner aspirations and calling out to them to come out which you have kept locked deep inside your heart. So ask yourself, "Are you forced?". And let the heart respond to your question.


@roy.ban
Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Camouflaged

~ Kim mcCrea  ,  Rating 5+ In all chaotic beauty lies a wounded work of art. Beautiful but torn, wreaking havoc on my heart. Camouflaged by insecurities, blinded by it all. I love the way you sit there and barely notice me at all.                                                                                                                                   -  Kim mcCrea
Post a Comment
Read more

An Individual

This particular individual has been devoid of existence in almost all spheres of life. An individual who has been abused, both mentally and physically. His life revolves around abandonment, isolation, self-loathing, self-pity, failure.  He simply exists, or should I say, non-exists in this void where the ambience is pitch dark. He tries to crawl through this void, constantly searching for an edge, but in vain. He just stays where he is, motionless, helpless, emotionless, all his life.You may not be able to recognise him. Because, you simply decide to not notice him. You can say hundreds of times that he's not worth anything. You can make fun of him as much as you want. You can bully him all you like. But here's the fact. You don't notice him. So, you won't notice when he rises above your so called "status" and proves his worth. Then, when you call him, he won't respond. Because now, the tables have turned. You are the one who is under him now. And he? H...
Post a Comment
Read more

Memories & Time

There are times in your life when you look back. You look back upon the days gone by, but just the recent memories. Memories which affect you the most right now, memories which might not affect you after some days, months, or years. So why do we choose to look back at only those memories? Is that our limit? No. Our own presence right at this moment is sown by those millions of memories right from our birth. Look back on those memories, be it sad or happy. The person you are now, is because of what you have struggled through, peacefully or painfully. Going down memory lane, you might just come across instances which might have directly or indirectly led to the pain that is affecting you now. You might think, "Wish I hadn't done that at that point in time, then all my struggle right now would be gone." I request you all, and myself to never let this bother you. If you hadn't taken the step then, maybe your life would have gone on a different track. But then what? Do yo...
Post a Comment
Read more